they call it, life-lessons.
a few techniques/skills that one need to obtain/get/perfect before reaching adolescence:
1) smile, no matter how sad or depress or whatever shit you feel, smile. and make it look real~
2) trust no one completely. yes of course you're allowed to trust, d'oh~ but never place a 100% trust on one certain individual, cause if that person leave...well yea, we better not get to that, its saddening.
3) learn how to cherish every hour, minute, second. cause time waits for no man, no kidding.
once its over, its over. all that's left will be memories
4) if you're not a loner, start getting use to the idea that as you grow older, solo time will happen more often. cause truth is, no matter how many friends you have, you're alone. your own battles to fight, your own life to live. not your friends, not your family. no one, not even your own shadow is there for you ALL THE TIME.
5) brace yourself for the fact that people come and go. ever heard of the friends come in for a reason, a season and a lifetime bla3 story? its true. friends today may not be your friend tomorrow. well, at least thats better than people who pretend to be your friend and yet, does things behind your back. that, you gotta watch out for.
6) dont be prejudice. never judge a person by how they look and talk or whatever. because, everyone has their own story, so you have NO RIGHTS at all to judge. people who looked like they have it all are the ones who usually have nothing at all. yes, its that bad. so before you start commenting on others, THINK, who are you to be commenting? are you trying to play god? do you know what this person had to go through? why does he/she acts this way?
7) be there for the person who is there for you. most people take others for granted. this is true, its happening EVERY freakin' WHERE. and reality is a bitch cause you see, i dont know why, but humans have the tendency to do this. you care for A, and A cares for B and it goes on and on and on. and in the end everyone gets hurt and sad. cause you invest so much on A and A doesnt even care bout you and B cares for C more than B cares for A....okay, so you probably get the idea.
8) never believe a side to the story. cause whoever that is listening to your story, will obviously will be on your side. the story teller always tells the story where he, himself is a victim. get the full bloody story from 300 perspectives before judging the other characters of the story.
9) dont hate anyone. cause think about it, why do you wanna focus all your energy on this person. and who is this person, why do you even allow this person to even affect your mood that much. is it worth it? (and again refer to no.6)
oowh~ i'm done :D
but just cause i wrote all this, doesnt mean i've perfected them myself cause you see, OBVIOUSLY its easier said than done. so yea~ :/
it's just the little things in life i realise especially after entering form6. so i guess, form6 has its goods too :)
its just that, some of em, had to be learnt the hard way. ahhah~
too bad school doesnt teach us all these stuffs man... but i think, even if they do, its not like we can undestand it. as in of course we can understand, but in-depth understanding? okay nevermind, crappin' here :P
back to me beloved books.
so should i go for bio, chem or math now? O.o hmm~
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